Silence of the Clams

Debt is a very serious issue. It has taken centre stage in the news now for a couple of years now. One reason is that more and more people are getting into serious financial difficulties.

Many people hide the truth from their partners and families, thinking they can get out of the situation. Some become ill and this in turn leads them to shove it under the rug and hope it goes away. It doesn’t and it doesn’t do any good, most likely, only make matters worse.

I haven’t lied about it. But I didn’t say the problems I have had. I waited a long time before talking it over with my girlfriend. I think this is a case for most people.

It really does help to talk, just to get things off your chest and as the saying goes, “a problem shared is a problem halved”. Talking can help with stress and give you ideas. And there are places out there that can help.

So, don’t clam up. If you are in trouble, look around, there is always someone out there who can help you.